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Signs Your Nervous System Is Stuck in Survival Mode
If you feel constantly on edge, emotionally numb, or overwhelmed by small things, your nervous system may be stuck in survival mode. This isn’t a personal failure—it’s a trauma response. What Does “Survival Mode” Mean? Survival mode occurs when the nervous system perceives ongoing threat, even when danger has passed. This is common for people with trauma histories, especially complex or developmental trauma. Common Signs of a Dysregulated Nervous System Chronic anxiety or pa

Caitlin Weese
1 day ago1 min read


People-Pleasing Isn’t a Personality Trait—It’s a Trauma Response
Many people-pleasers describe themselves as “nice,” “empathetic,” or “easygoing.” But beneath chronic people-pleasing is often a nervous system that learned early on that staying attuned to others was necessary for safety. People-pleasing isn’t a flaw—it’s a survival response. What People-Pleasing Really Is People-pleasing is the habit of prioritizing others’ needs, emotions, or comfort at the expense of your own. For many millennial women, this pattern developed in childhood

Caitlin Weese
Feb 101 min read


Trauma Therapy for Millennial Women: What Actually Helps (And Why Talk Therapy Isn’t Always Enough)
Many millennial women come to therapy feeling exhausted, overwhelmed, and frustrated that they’ve “done the work” but still feel triggered. You may understand why you are the way you are—yet your body continues to react as if the past is still happening. This is where trauma therapy differs from traditional talk therapy. Trauma lives not just in thoughts, but in the nervous system. What Trauma Looks Like in Millennial Women Trauma doesn’t always come from one obvious event.

Caitlin Weese
Jan 262 min read


Can EMDR Be Done Virtually? A Guide to Online Healing
If you’re curious about whether EMDR therapy can be done virtually, the answer is yes — EMDR can absolutely be done online . Research shows it can be just as effective as in-person EMDR . As trauma therapists embrace telehealth, virtual EMDR has become a powerful and accessible option for healing PTSD, complex trauma, chronic stress, and nervous system dysregulation — all from the safety and comfort of home. Yes, this means you can join in your PJs if you like! Let’s explore

Caitlin Weese
Nov 4, 20253 min read
Finding EMDR Therapy Near Me: Your Path to Healing
Finding the right therapy can be a daunting task. EMDR therapy is a powerful tool for healing trauma. It helps people process distressing memories and reduce their emotional impact. If you're searching for "EMDR therapy near me," you're not alone. Many seek this therapy for PTSD, anxiety, and depression. EMDR therapy is recognized by major health organizations for its effectiveness. It offers a structured approach to healing. In this guide, we'll explore how to find EMDR the

Caitlin Weese
Sep 17, 20254 min read


Post EMDR: Self-Care Tips from Your Friendly Neighborhood Trauma Therapist
Unsure about how to take care of yourself after an EMDR session? Read on

Caitlin Weese
Apr 25, 20255 min read


Candid Conversations: Interview with Caitlin Weese, LCSW-C
For this week’s blog I got the opportunity to sit down with Caitlin Weese, LCSW-C, CCTP a trauma specialist in the Frederick Maryland...
Michaela Cooper
Mar 8, 20249 min read


5 Tips for Coping with Mental Health in the Workplace
In a perfect world, every employer would allow and promote taking days off to focus on your mental health when you feel you need it....
Michaela Cooper
Feb 23, 20244 min read


EMDR Intensives: What are they & could they be a good fit for me?
What is EMDR? EMDR Intensives are an alternative to traditional EMDR therapy. EMDR, or Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing, is...
Michaela Cooper
Feb 9, 20242 min read


What Can ‘Barbie’ and Taylor Swift Teach Women About Mental Health?
If you weren’t living under a rock the last few months, it was likely impossible to ignore all of the media coverage focused on ‘Barbie’...
Michaela Cooper
Jan 26, 20244 min read


The Hidden Side of Perfection
Describing yourself as a “perfectionist” has always raised an eyebrow or two. People assume you’re either trying to win someone over,...
Michaela Cooper
Jan 12, 20244 min read


Trauma Anniversaries: What Are They and How Can You Cope?
No matter where you are on your healing journey, the anniversary of your trauma could affect you in various ways. It’s important to...
Michaela Cooper
Dec 15, 20234 min read


Simple Guide to EMDR
Simple Guide to EMDR EMDR has quickly become a popular psychotherapy treatment. You may have heard a friend mention it or seen an...
Michaela Cooper
Dec 1, 20235 min read


How to Actually Enjoy the Holidays
Over the last couple of weeks, we’ve explored why the holidays can be hard and how to protect your mental health. Between the financial...
Michaela Cooper
Nov 24, 20233 min read


4 Ways to Improve Your Mental Health Over the Holidays
The holidays are notoriously not the easiest on your mental health; you can read more about that here . While the holidays can bring joy,...
Michaela Cooper
Nov 17, 20234 min read


4 Reasons the Holidays Can be Mentally Exhausting
Why is the "Most Wonderful Time of the Year” not really wonderful at all? The National Alliance on Mental Health found that 64% of...
Michaela Cooper
Nov 10, 20233 min read


What Happens in Therapy?
Going to therapy can be a scary task if you don’t know what to expect. Everyone knows how therapy works though, right? The common...
Michaela Cooper
Nov 3, 20234 min read


How Can You Support a Loved One with PTSD?
While searching for ways to support a loved one with PTSD, it’s important to note that PTSD can present itself differently in each...
Michaela Cooper
Oct 27, 20234 min read


How & Why You Should Build a Self Soothing Kit
What is a self soothing kit? Suppose you look up the definition of self-soothing. You will likely get an article on infants or toddlers...
Michaela Cooper
Oct 20, 20232 min read


Your Therapist Loves When You Disagree With Them
Hold up, so you're telling me there is someone that LIKES when I think they’re wrong? I know it seems suspicious but stay with me here....
Michaela Cooper
Oct 13, 20233 min read
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